Fr. Aloysius Deeney, OCD, has written well about discerning a vocation to OCDS. His six main discernment points, summarized, are:
1. A Carmelite must be a practicing member of the Catholic Church, with capacity to participate fully in the sacrament of the Most Holy Eucharist.
2. The OCDS (as with the other Carmelite Orders) is under the protection of Our Lady of Mount Carmel and has a special devotion to her. “She attracts and inspires a Carmelite to a contemplative way of understanding the life of the mystical body of her Son, the Church”. Like Mary, a Carmelite has “an inclination to ‘meditate in the heart’”.
3. Teresian Carmelites are inspired by St. Teresa of Jesus (Our Holy Madre and foundress of our order), St. John of the Cross (Our Holy Father and cofounder of the order), St. Therese of the Child Jesus, and other Carmelite saints. A Carmelite would have a burning interest in learning from these saints, which would lead to “a deeper interest in Scripture, theology and the documents of the Church.”
4. A Carmelite has a commitment to the Order and to his/her OCDS community, which “ought to be more important than other movements or groups” that the person is involved in. The Carmelite takes on the identity of a Carmelite and “Discovers that Carmel becomes essential to his/her identity as a Catholic.”
5. The Carmelite Seeks the face of God, engages in contemplation, “a wondering observation of God’s word and work in order to know, love and serve Him.” The Carmelite is committed to personal holiness and the practice of virtues, which flow from “a life of prayerful searching for God’s will…” The Carmelite finds God in the various events of life.
6. A Carmelite leads a life of prayer and goodness not only for his/her own sake, but also “for the sake of the Church and the world.” Secular Carmelites have individual apostolates to address the needs of others (especially spiritual), as well as a group apostolate. Each OCDS community “ought to answer the question as a community ‘What can we do to share with others what we have received by belonging to Carmel?